I rarely pay much attention to what is said in group chats unless I am looking for something specific
so tonight when I decided to finish decoration a new house for some friends, I noticed that one of
the fashion store groups chat was open.
I had gotten a notice about tomorrows sales but had not had the opportunity to read it through
as putting my new desk, the sofa and kitchen out was a bit more challenging as I decided that
we wanted our “homes” to be on angles. So, putting things in and lining them up is a bit
challenging..I was up for it but James was also logged in and willing to “tweak” them for me.

So, while I was waiting for him to finish the touch ups, I decided to venture into that open group chat
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Things happen for a reason, I have always believed that.

So, when things change, good or bad, I just move forward and start over.

I learned a lot about setting “healthy boundaries” from the series on Dealing with Difficult People

that I helped out by doing the voice in SL for.

I set my boundaries recently and did not back down.  Yes, it was difficult, but I did it.

Hurt like crazy afterwards as I loved what I had to leave, but my health and personal

boundaries were at risk if I allowed someone to push me to do something that I

knew was not good for me.

So, I look forward to something new when the time comes.

Have not closed the door, just been placed “inactive”.  Sort of the same thing

but I am not a quitter and I did not quit.

Tomorrow is the SL even One Billion Rising.

I am volunteering as a greeter at this huge event, and

have a personal reason for doing this.

Many do not know, I am a one and survived many years without

dealing with it.  I have done the work and recovered as much as

it is possible.

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